Faith in Action
Meet Four
Catholic Volunteers in Florida
Ellie
Grzywa, a Catholic Volunteer in Florida, serves
as the children’s program assistant at the I.M.
Sulzbacher Center for the Homeless in Jacksonville. She cheerfully greets the
children each day and plans activities for them in the new children’s center.
The first question is always “Why?”
Both family and friends want to know why anyone
would put off starting a paying career and give
up a year of his or her life to be a Catholic
Volunteer in Florida. For four volunteers now
serving in Jacksonville, the answers are as
varied as the young people themselves.
Ellie Grzywa, an Illinois native and recent
graduate with a bachelor’s in agricultural
science, wanted to do volunteer service before
beginning veterinary school, and get a little
help with college expenses. Grace Pasden of
Tampa had worked in the corporate world in
Atlanta, a stint she recalls as mind numbing and
pointless. Eager for more meaningful work that
might bring her closer to home in Florida, she
applied to be a Catholic Volunteer. Doug Baron
from Tennessee admits that along with the desire
to help others, he looked forward to catching
some rays in the Sunshine State. As for Anna
Steele of Washington State, she had always been
interested in non-profit work but wanted to find
a position among people with whom she could
share her Catholic faith.
While Ellie, Grace, Doug and Anna each had his
or her own reason for joining Catholic
Volunteers, all have found their year filled
with unexpected challenges and rewards.
Established in 1983, Catholic Volunteers in
Florida invites people to turn faith into action
by volunteering for one full year with
non-profit organizations that serve the poor and
marginalized. To facilitate their yearlong
commitment, volunteers are given a monthly
stipend and meal allowance, as well as housing
and health insurance. They also qualify for the
AmeriCorps Educational Award Voucher, which can
be used to pay existing student loans or to
further education.
“No one expects to get rich in volunteer
service, except in those things in life that
matter most. You do it because that part of your
heart where Jesus lives, craves service,” says
Catholic Volunteers Executive Director, Richard
Galentino.
Catholic Volunteers strives to match volunteers’
skills and interests with the needs of the
community. Having served as facilitator
assistant for girls in the juvenile court system
in her home state, Anna was placed with Family
Foundations and helps at-risk elementary
students at Westside Full Service Schools. Doug
is working as a support specialist at Big
Brothers Big Sisters in Jacksonville matching
“Bigs” and “Littles,” while Grace and Ellie are
assigned to the I.M. Sulzbacher Center for the
Homeless in downtown Jacksonville.
Grace didn’t know what to expect, but readily
admits that nothing could have prepared her for
the pressures of her new position as case
manager. Shelter is a basic human need, so to be
homeless is to necessarily be in crisis.
“You’re meeting people at their most difficult
point. The Sulzbacher Center is an amazing place
but the drama here can be 24 hours a day. It’s
exhausting both mentally and physically, ” says
Grace.
Ellie’s job at the center, while just as
demanding, has perhaps more immediate rewards -
the laughter of children. As the children’s
program assistant, she works to provide a stable
and nurturing environment for the children and
their families. She also plans and runs
activities for the youth program at the homeless
center.
“My favorite moment of the day is opening the
door to let the kids into this beautiful new
activities building. They practically tackle me
with hugs. It means a lot to me to be able to
give them as normal a childhood as possible,”
says Ellie.
Anna uses her training as a behaviorist to help
elementary students who are having a hard time
making it in regular classrooms. Behavior
modification doesn’t happen overnight and she
has seen some of her students take as many steps
backward as forward.
“One child who I thought was making good
progress got caught smoking in the bathroom. So
we started all over,” says Anna. “He has finally
begun to do really well in school and instead of
acting tough, he gives me hugs.”
Doug enjoys his job matching “Bigs” and “Littles.”
He even has a “little brother” himself and that
relationship has enriched his life.
“His face lights up every time he sees me,” says
Doug, “and that’s just the best part of my
week.”
Grace, Ellie, Doug and Anna live in community
together, an arrangement that can be both a
blessing and a challenge. Coming from different
parts of the country, working different
schedules in demanding jobs and living with
strangers doesn’t always make for instant
friendships, but the spiritual connection helps.
“Just having people your own age to go to church
with is a great thing,” laughs Grace.
Doug is not Catholic, but he has found himself
drawn closer to the Bible, to his own church and
to God during this year. Even homesickness can
have its upside. “Instead of turning to family
and old friends, I have to turn to God,” Anna
says.
During their year of service, the volunteers
attend retreats sponsored by the Catholic
Volunteers of Florida. Ellie appreciates these
retreats not only as a respite from her work,
but as a time of discernment. “The retreats give
me a chance to reflect of the deeper meaning and
purpose of what I’m doing. In the beginning, it
was also a chance to think about whether I’m cut
out for this kind of work. Being able to share
and pray really helps.”
The four volunteers are also sustained by their
relationship with Catholic Volunteer Alumni Mary
and Ron Zamora, who live in the area and have
invited them for dinner and helped them deal
with the challenges of social work. One of those
challenges is balancing compassion for those in
need with the realities of social work. Grace
believes that working at the homeless center has
made her stronger about drawing boundaries.
“Some of our guests have years of “street”
knowledge to my few months. I try to see Christ
in them, but I also don’t want to be
manipulated.”
Grace is now more aware of the real sacrifices -
financial and emotional - involved in social
justice work. But perhaps, the biggest thing
Grace and Ellie say they have learned is to
never make assumptions about people.
“This experience has opened my eyes in so many
ways. You never know,” Grace says, “The homeless
look like us. Sometimes it’s the loss of a
paycheck, an illness or even bad luck, but you
really never know who is homeless or why. ”
“I’ve come away with a new appreciation for the
circle of support from family and friends that I
have in my life,” says Ellie. “And this year
away from them has made me realize that the
circle remains strong no matter how much
distance there is.”
For Anna, as for the others, this volunteer year
has been more difficult than she imagined. Yet
it is a year that has deepened her desire to do
social work and helped her realize that “Each
child is a gift and there’s something special to
see in all of them.”
As for Doug, he feels that his Catholic
Volunteer experience has been a leap of faith -
in the right direction. “Before I never dreamed
of working with a non-profit organization. Now I
can see myself working with kids and moving into
a deeper relationship with God.”
Catholic Volunteers in Florida offers adults the
opportunity to faithfully serve the poor and
marginalized through non-profit organizations -
to live the Gospel as they build their
relationship with God. For more
information,visit
www.cvif.org or call (407)
382-7071. |